I have some thoughts on being a care giver. Because I will tell you these things that many people won't it does not mean I am angry or sad or depressed. It is what it is. There is no one who gets married to her love and says, Oh Boy, I can't wait until
I can be a care giver. Just as learning to be a parent isn't offered as a degree in school, so it is that being a care giver is an on the job learning experience. The hard fact is that care giving takes a lot out of you. It doesn't diminish the love for your
spouse, it changes it. You really are no longer a couple. You are together, but not really. The world centers and rises and sets on the taker. You become completely responsible for that person with no hope that it will change . It can only get worse, or even
worse. This is a dead end journey. I hate the term journey. Journeys are supposed to be fun . You look forward to journeys. This is not a journey. It's an ending. It's a life on hold. It's the sickness and in health line.It is what it is. Remember , I am not
depressed, angry or sad .I'm just saying.